Irrespective of the fact whether you are a man or a women, you may feel that you finally are with the love of your life and your life is complete! Apparently, you may feel that you are in a very healthy relationship. However all of this is what a person feels at the start of a relationship.
There are so many people who visit a sexologist or go to take advice from counselors about their relationship which may get a bit dull with time. If you want to endure and have a healthy relationship with your partner for life, there are some vital areas that you need to be careful about. You need to work on a few relationship styles and ensure that some traits are constricted or kept to the minimal, when you are in a relationship or are finally a couple.
Below we have mentioned about some mistakes that people make after they get into a relationship:
When one of the partners gets highly dependent
You need to keep in mind that you both need to nurture your relationship. It will not thrive, if it is not cared enough! You need to place your relationship with your partner on top priority come what may. It must not be your whole life; however in some cases you should only decide or make a plan if you feel your partner feels content with it. If you are not permitting your partner to do something they enjoy doing, or not allowing them to take lead in certain aspect, then you are getting to a risky phase.
Getting highly independent
You need to give priority to your relationship. However giving your whole time and life around it could get unhealthy. If you always want and demand things to be done your way, and this limit your partner’s freedom, then that’s not right at all. If one wants a child while the other does not at the moment, then this might be a core value which would be non-negotiable. Yet in several cases, you have to accept the fact that things cannot always be going the way you want.
If the food preferences are not the same, at times, both the partners should learn to negotiate. The very same point is necessary for decision making. Even though at times taking a decision on behalf of your partner is fine. But, in most cases, when it involves you both, you must ask your partners view point too.
Unable to make sacrifices
When you are in a relationship, you need to understand this that making sacrifices needs to be a part of it. You cannot have connection with your single life and at the same time want to enjoy the benefits of a committed relationship. Relationships take time to nurture and with it come several tests and sacrifices, which helps to strengthen your bond with your partner. If you would reach home late, it is your duty to keep your partner informed about it.
If you are someone who parties a lot, while your partner is not much a party person, you both need to settle on a middle course. It might not always make you feel happy giving a part of your autonomy away. But that’s what relationships and. These things help in thriving and helping relationships grow to the next level. If you are reluctant to sacrifice some preferences and desires for your better half, then your relationship will not go a long way.