You need to ensure that your relationship is maintained and it must last forever. Therefore, you must lookout for the signs to ensure that you are with the right one. Try to balance out your attachment feelings for your partner. There are some signs which will indicate and ensure yourself that your partner is right for you.
- The ‘bar test’
When you take your partner to a restaurant and if you feel hesitant or fear that someone will see you two together then you need to decide whether maintaining a relationship with him or she is your correct option. But if you feel perfectly content with your partner and not bothered about anyone seeing you both together then you pass the test. You should not feel hesitant or awkward in moving around with your partner.
- Wishing well for your partner
If you genuinely wish well for your partner about his or her success in life then your relationship is correct with your partner. You will not hold your partner back. If you try to hold your partner back in life then your relationship with your partner is not genuine and healthy. If you love someone genuinely then you will desire that he or she gets success in every aspect of life.
- Listen to your heart
Your heart will send you the correct intuition for your partner. The heart will send genuine message which you should listen to. Do not overlook the message of the heart. When you feel good for your partner then understand that he or she is your correct choice. But if it is otherwise then understood that it’s the wrong choice. So listen to your heart’s intuition. If your partner wants to change you and you do not want to change then just leave your partner as he or she is not the right choice for you. Your partner will never treat you properly. Your partner should accept you as you are.
- The person should fit in your life
If your partner fits well in other parts of your life then understand that he or she is the right one for you. Your partner should get along well with your family and friends. You both should have a mutual interest in things which you do together.
- Your partner should listen
If your partner shows interest in your work and life and appreciates you when you are talking then he or she is the right choice. A good partner will remember all the things which you told about yourself. This shows that he or she is genuinely attached to you. Your partner will show interest in your work and will appreciate you.
- Your partner should be concerned about you
In your good times, your partner should be happy but if any misfortune happens then he or she should be concerned regarding you. In your bad times, a genuine partner will not desert you and will not leave you standing alone. He or she should comfort and encourage you. This is a true sign of the right partner.
