Modernization gave us multiple boons, but everything comes with the ability to become a curse.
When asked, “What is a poison?” A wise man responded, “Excess of anything is poison.”
This saying goes for everything, including today’s discussion topic: How Watching Porn Can Destroy Your Domestic/Married Life?
Upon immense research, I found out that watching porn is not the problem but doing it without limits is.
The Effects of Porn on Marriage
Let us see the effects of porn on marriage one by one with the help of the points explained below:
- Passion: Passion in wedlock comes after the couple has achieved a love connection. With porn hanging between them, they can not reach the ultimate intimacy. It is due to the expected body image, unreal sexual expectations and weird stories shown in the porn.
- Expectations: If you have experienced porn, you must be aware that sex in porn and real life are way too different. When porn addicted person steps into real life for sexual gratification, they may not find it due to the overhyped expectations set by porn.
- Body Image Issues: Every person working in the porn industry has to maintain a beautiful body because it is one of their job requirements. People hardly have bodies like that in real life. It can come in between the partners during their intimate moments, and we know how stress affects sex life.
- Brain Stimulation: As we have already established, porn offers unreal expectations. It becomes difficult for men to achieve or maintain an erection when trying to perform in the bedroom because their brain is now used to getting more stimulation than they can get in real life.
Porn to Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile Dysfunction is when men can not achieve or hold an erection firm enough for intercourse. If such a situation occurs frequently, it can disrupt your sex life, and the affected person must take professional treatment.
When it comes to erectile dysfunction caused by watching excess porn, it results from wrong brain stimulation. When men watch porn, we watch fictional scenarios which are hard to get in real life.
They get aroused in those scenarios with stunning women with tiny waists and blessed curves. However, this is not the picture in their real life. It becomes difficult for them to achieve an erection when it comes to feeling aroused at the sight of their wives.
Although it sounds awful, medical attention can still resolve this situation. All you have to do is identify this situation and take it to a good sexologist at the earliest. The doctor can guide you in the right direction to help you come back to your regular sex life.
Effects of Porn Addiction in Women
Men experience Erectile Dysfunction, whereas women suffer from exaggerated expectations.
I must mention that porn is not shot in one go. Some scenes are shot on one and some on another. People assume that men last as long as shown in porn films, which is untrue in real life.
Hence, when women encounter the truth, they do not find sexual satisfaction resulting in frustration.
What is the Use of Porn?
There is no way we can wipe porn from the internet entirely, and I am not implying that people should not watch porn. They can watch it if they are doing it in a controlled manner.
Moreover, even if you are watching porn, you should do it for educational purposes only. Once you think you have learnt enough, just stop watching it.
I don’t see any practical use in wasting so much time on it daily. Do you?
Conclusion
This article highlighted the side effects of watching porn on a marriage. Watching Porn Can Destroy Your Domestic/Married Life, but it is equally harmful to the young generation.
Access to such information at such a tender age can be disastrous. I do not wish to list the horrors of such a situation when concluding one of my articles. Stay tuned with me to learn about this topic too.